FOOTNOTES

NOTES —CHAPTER I

1 Ernest F. Miller, "Teenagers and Vocation," The Liguorian, XLIV, April, 1956, pp. 209-210.

2 John A. O'Brien, Marriage a Vocation (Notre Dame, Ind.: Ave Maria Press, 1953), p. 18.

3 Quest for Happiness, Book 4 (Chicago: Mentzer, Bush & Co., 1958), p. 199.

4 "The Most Important Question," Vocational Digest, Holy Cross Fathers, Notre Dame, Ind., reprint.

5 Quest for Happiness, op. cit., p. 200.

6 Raymond A. Tartre, S.S.S., "Signs of Priestly Vocation," Emmanual, March. 1959, pp. 116-117.

7 Ibid., p. 117.

8 Quest for Happiness, op. cit., pp. 202—203.

9 Idid., p. 203.

10 U William D. Ryan, Seven Steps to Tabor (Chicago: J. S. Paluch Co., Inc.), pp. 8-9.

11 Quest for Happiness, op. cit., p. 207.

12 Ibld., p. 209.

13 "I Am a Catholic Priest," K. C. pamphlet, St. Louis 8, Missouri, p. 7.

14 Rev. Thomas E. Langer, "What Is a Priest?" Our Sunday Visitor, March 13, 1960.

15 Quest for Happiness, op. cit., p. 217.

16., p. 220.

17 Ida Mae Kempel, "God Can't Have Her!", The Family Digest, March, 1958.

18 "God's Career Women," Msgr. Walter L. Fasnacht.

19 Edward V. Stanford, O.S.A., Preparing for Marriage (Chicago: Mentzer, Bush & Co., 1958), pp. 22-23.

20 Pius XII, Woman's Duties in Social and Political Life (New York: Paulist Press, 1945), pp. 7-8.

21 Pius XII, On Holy Virginity (Washington, D. C: National Catholic Welfare Conference, 1954), pp. 3-4.

22 Quest for Happiness, op. cit., p. 233.

23 Ernest F. Miller, C.SS.R., "Teenagers and Single Life," The Liguorian, July, 1956, pp. 396-397.

24 This essay was penned by Rose Mary Harry, a social worker of the Wash­ington, D. C, area, upon request.

25 Miller, op. cit., p. 397.

26 1 Cor. 7:32-35.

27 Raymond Bernard, S.J., "Secular Institutes," America, June 23, 1956, p. 301.

28 Mary A. Grice, "God's Secret Service," Our Sunday Visitor, February 19, 1961, pp. 1-4.

29 The author is indebted to the Catholic Youth Organization of the Arch­ diocese of Milwaukee (207 East Michigan Street, Milwaukee 2, Wisconsin) for the use of this material on careers.

NOTES — CHAPTER II

1 Brother Gerald J. Schnepp, S.M., and Rev. Alfred F. Schnepp, S.M., To God

Through Marriage (Milwaukee: Bruce, 1957), pp. 108-109.

2 Ibid., p. 9.

3 "The Real Secret of Successful Marriage," K. C. pamphlet, St. Louis 8, Mo., pp. 25-26.

4 Ibid.

5 Rev. Henry V. Sattler, C.SS.R., 'Marriage Is a Three-Ring Circus," Our

Sunday Visitor, Oct. 13, 1957.

NOTES — CHAPTER III

1 Very Rev. Msgr. George A. Kelly, "Parents and Their Children's Marriages," Our Sunday Visitor, June 5, 1960.

2 Rt. Rev. Msgr. Francis W. Carney, S.T.D., "Help Your Children to Happy Marriages," Columbia, June, 1960, p. 18.

3 Ibid.

4 Edward V. Stanford, O.S.A., Preparing for Marriage (Chicago: Mentzer, Bush & Co.), p. 39.

5 Ernest F. Miller, "Teen-agers and Dating," The Liguorian, Liguori, Mo., April, 1955.

6 Alan Beck, "What Is a Boy?" Courtesy New England Mutual Life Insurance Company, 501 Boylston Street, Boston 17, Massachusetts.

7 Alan Beck, "What Is a Girl?" Courtesy New England Mutual Life Insurance Company, 501 Boylston Street, Boston 17, Massachusetts.

8 Paul H. Landis, Your Dating Days (New York: McGraw-Hill Book Co., 1954), p. 11.

9 John J. O'Connor, S.J., Preparation for Marriage and Family Life (New York: The Paulist Press, 1947), p. 19 (out of print).

10 Ibid., pp. 21-22.

11 Dr. Michael P. Penetar, "The Importance of Dating," Our Sunday Visitor, November 13, 1960.

12 Philip Mooney, S.J., "Dating in Charity," Today, reprint.

13 Roma Rudd Turkel, "The 'Going Steady' Crisis," Information, March, 1957.

14 Stanford, op. cit., pp. 43-44.

15 Capt. J. L. Abbot, Jr., U.S.N., Assistant to the Commandant of Midship­men, United States Naval Academy, "The Navy vs 'Going Steady,'" Saturday Evening Post, Vol. 230 (March, 1958), p. 36.

16 See Joseph T. McGloin, S.J., You Should Be Going Steady (St. Louis: The Queen's Work, 1957).

17 Stanford, op. cit., p. 42.

18 Rt. Rev. Msgr. Thomas J. Cawley, Unwed Mother Speaks to Teen Girls (Techny, 111.: Divine Word Publications), pp. 7-16.

19 Ed Willock, Dating: a Guide for Parents (Notre Dame, Ind.: Ave Maria Press, November, 1960).

NOTES — CHAPTER IV

1 Dr. Michael P. Penetar, "The Meaning of Courtship," Our Sunday Visitor, December 11, 1960.

2 Edward V. Stanford, Preparing for Marriage (Chicago: Mentzer, Bush & Co., 1958), p. 52.

3 Clement S. Mihanovich, "Whom Should I Marry?" Ave Maria, June 11, I960, p. 12.

4 Ibid., p. 13.

5 Rev. Henry V. Sattler, C.SS.R., "Soundness of Body," Our Sunday Visitor, November, 1957.

eMihanovich, op. cit., p. 13.

7 Rosalind Russell, "I'm Glad I Didn't Marry Young," Reader's Digest, February, 1959, p. 75.

8 Charles Hugo Doyle, Blame No One but Yourself (Tarrytown, N. Y.: The Nugent Press, 1955), pp. 211-213.

9 Ibid., pp. 203-209.

10 Msgr. J. D. Conway, What They Ask About Marriage (Chicago: Fides, 1955), pp. 4-6.

11 Paul Popenoe, Modern Marriage (New York: The Macmillan Co., 1925), p. 12.

12 John A. O'Brien, Strategy in Courtship (Notre Dame, Ind.: Ave Maria Press, 1954), pamphlet.

13 Stanford, op. cit., p. 82.

l4 Marjorie C. Cosgrove and Mary I. Josey, About You (Chicago: Science Research Associates, 1952), p. 67.

15 Richard L. Rooney, "Out on a Date," The Queen's Work, April, 1954.

16 Paul Popenoe, Building Sex Into Your Life (Los Angeles: A.I.F.R., 1930).

17 Donald F. Miller, C.SS.R., "Privileges of the Engaged," The Liguorian, August, 1958.

18 Popenoe, Modern Marriage, op. cit., p. 113.

19 Henry V. Sattler, C.SS.R., "Getting Ready for Marriage," Our Sunday Visitor, December 18, 1960.

20 Ibid.

NOTES — CHAPTER V

1 Harry S. Smith, C.SS.R., "Here Comes the Bride!" The Liguorian, June, 1958, p. 18.

2 Edward V. Stanford, O.S.A., Preparing for Marriage (Chicago: Mentzer, Bush & Company, 1958), pp. 100-101.

3 Msgr. James A. Magner, A Check List for Your Wedding (Notre Dame, Ind.: Ave Maria Press, 1959), pp. 11-12.

4 Gerard Breitenbeck, C.SS.R., How to Arrange for Your Wedding (Liguori, Mo.: The Liguorian Press, 1957), pp. 17-18.

5 Ibid., p. 19.

6 "Magner, op. cit., pp. 17-18.

7 Stanford, op. cit., pp. 108-109.

8 Gerald Ellard, S.J., and Sister M. Anne Burns, O.S.B., Service (Chicago: Loyola University Press, 1951), pp. 37-39.

9 Copyright by St. Anthony's Guild. Paterson, N. J. — Permission granted.

10 Stanford, op. cit., p. 110.

NOTES — CHAPTER VI

1 Dorothy Dix, Philadelphia Evening Ledger, December 1, 1936.

2 America, August 1, 1931, p. 394.

3 Alice Case, "I Refused to Risk an Inter-Faith Marriage," The Family Digest, March, 1960, pp. 25-28.

4 Helen Wayne, "Marriage, Mixed or Unmixed," Our Sunday Visitor, October 2, 1960.

5 Edward V. Stanford, Preparing for Marriage (Chicago: Mentzer, Bush & Co., 1958), p. 72.

NOTES — CHAPTER VII

I Germain Flammand, "The Mystery of Love," Our Sunday Visitor, Huntington, Ind., February 3, 1957, p. 4.

2 Edgar Schmiedeler, O.S.B., Looking Toward Marriage (Washington, D. C: N.C.W.C. Family Life Bureau), p. 22.

3 Fulton J. Sheen, Three to Get Married (New York: Appleton-Century-Croft, Inc.), pp. 151-152.

4Alphonse Clemens, Marriage and the Family (Englewood Cliffs, N. J.: Prentice-Hall, Inc., 1957), pp. 155-156.

5 Clifford R. Adams, "Making Marriage Work," Ladies Home Journal, Sep­tember, 1960. p. 34.

6 Edward V. Stanford, Preparing for Marriage (Chicago: Mentzer, Bush & Co., 1960), p. 126.

7 Rev. James J. Killgallon, "The Church and Sex," Ave Maria, February 21, 1959 (Notre Dame, Ind.: The Ave Maria Press).

8 Pope Pius Xll, "Apostolale of the Midwife," 1951, Papal Pronouncements on Marriage and the Family, Alvin Werth and Clement S. Mihanovich (Mil­waukee: The Bruce Publishing Co., 1955), p. 65.

9 Killgallon, op. cit.

10 Stanford, op. cit., p. 128.

11 Henry V. Sattler, C.SS.R., "Two in One Flesh," Our Sunday Visitor, No­vember 22, 1959.

12 Mae M. Bookmiller, R.N., and George L. Bowem, M.D., Textbook of Obstetrics and Obstetric Nursing (Philadelphia: W. B. Saunders Co., 1954), pp. 81-133.

13 Ibid., pp. 44-46.

14 G. O. Nabors, M.D., "The Rh Factor Reconsidered," Marriage, September, 1960, Vol. 42, No. 9, pp. 13-15; Courtesy of the Metropolitan Life Insurance Company.

15 G. O. Nabors, M.D., "Save the Mother . . . and the Baby," Marriage, February, 1961, Vol. 43, No. 2, pp. 53-54.

16 Joseph A. Owens, "Frontier in Catholic Adoption," Voice of St. Jude, October, 1960, p. 10.

17 Joseph H. Reed, "Let's Stop Giving Babies Away," Family Weekly, May J, 1960, pp. 8-9.

18 Rev. Walter Imbiorski, ed., The New Cana Manual (Oak Park, III.: Delaney Publications, 1957), p. 120.

19 Joseph B. McAllister, Ethics (Philadelphia: W. B. Saunders Co., 1955), p. 351.

20 Pius XII, address to the Fourth International Congress of Catholic Doctors, September 29, 1949, quoted by Thomas J. O'Donnell, S.J., Morals in Medicine (Westminster, Md.: The Newman Press, 1959), p. 304.

21 Pius XII, address to Second World Congress on Fertility and Sterility, The Pope Speaks, Vol. 3, Autumn, 1956, pp. 193-194.

NOTES — CHAPTER VIII

1 Alfred M. Rehwinkef, Planned Parenthood and Birth Control in the Light of Christian Ethics (St. Louis, Mo.: Concordia Publishing House, 1959), p. 16.

2 Philip Goldstein, Genetics Is Easy (New York: Lantern Press, 1956), p. 222 ff.

3 Pope Pius XI, On Christian Marriage (New York: The Paulist Press, 1931), p. 18.

4 "The New Fertility Test and Rhythm," a Marriage pamphlet, St. Meinrad, Ind., p. 12.

5 Gerald Kelly, S.L, distinguishes between obligation and ideal in this matter, Grail, March, 1955, p. 17.

6 "The New Fertility Test and Rhythm," ibid., pp. 13-14.

7 John R. Cavanagh, M.D., "The Psychological Effects of Birth Prevention," Marriage, St. Meinrad's, Ind., September, 1960, p. 9.

8 "Abortion Facts Reported," Science News Letter, Vol. 78, August 6, 1960, p. 86.

9 Alfred M. Rehwinkel, op. cit., p. 39.

10 Moral Aspects of Birth Control, New York, 1938, issued by the Committee on Marriage and the Home of the Federal Council of Churches of Christ in America, p. 5.

11 Rehwinkel, op. cit., pp. 41-42.

12 Pius XI, op. cit., p. 17.

NOTES — CHAPTER IX

1 John J. Kane, "Why Marriages Fail," Voice of St. Jude, September, 1960, p. 34.

2 Judson C. Landis and Mary G. Landis, Personal Adjustment, Marriage and Family Living (Englewood, N. J.: Prentice-Hall, Inc., 1955), p. 267.

3 Howard Whitman, "Divorce Granted," Reader's Digest, October, 1954.

4 Jim Collison, "America's Divorce Scandal," Ave Maria, July 2, 1960, pp. 5-7.

5 L. H. Terman, Psychological Factors in Marital Happiness (New York: McGraw-Hill Book Co., 1938).

6 Detailed Statistics on Divorces and Annulments, 1955, Vol. 46, No. 4, p. 95 published by The National Office of Vital Statistics, U. S. Department of Health, Education and Welfare, April 9, 1957, indicate that 50.2 per cent of divorces occur in marriages where there are no children and an additional 22.8 per cent occur in marriages with only one child.

7 Howard Whitman, op. cit.

8 Msgr. George A. Kelly, "Seven Danger Signals in Marriage," The Sign, April, 1961, pp. 12-14.

9 Edward V. Stanford, O.S.A., Preparing for Marriage (Chicago: Mentzer, Bush & Co., 1960), pp. 172-173. pp. 174-175.

NOTES — CHAPTER X

1 Rev. George A. Kelly, The Catholic Family Handbook (New York: Random House, 1959), p. 18.

2 Edward V. Stanford, Preparing for Marriage (Chicago: Mentzer, Bush & Co., 1960), p. 184.

3 Kelly, op. cit., p. 19.

4 The American Weekly, August 4, 1957, p. 4.

5 Msgr. George A. Kelly, The Catholic Marriage Manual (New York: Random House, 1958), pp. 183-184.

6' Stanford, op. cit., p. 189.

7 Robert P. Odenwald, M.D., "Teaching Responsibility to Your Child," Ave Maria, March 26, 1960, p. 7.

8 Ibid., p. 6.

9 'Stanford, op. cit., p. 191.

10 Rev. John L. Thomas, S.J., Catholic Laymen in the Crisis of the Modern American Family, NCCM reprint, p. 7.

11 Stanford, op. cit., pp. 192-193.

12 Kelly, The Catholic Marriage Manual, op. cit., p. 6.

13 Together in Christ, Washington, D. C, National Catholic Welfare Confer­ence Family Life Bureau, "Of Cabbages and Things," p. 7.

14 Pope Pius XI, On Christian Marriage (New York: Paulist Press, 1930), pp. 38-39.

15 Timothy Reilley, O.Praem., "The Family Allowance Plan," Our Sunday Visitor, June 30, 1957.

16 Selig Greenberg, "The Later Years," Grail, December, 1958, St. Meinrad Abbey, St. Meinrad, Ind.